There's a notion that there's a perfection to how Life plays out for each of us, that there's some perfectly crafted Soul's curriculum being benevolently offered to Us alongside the simultaneous pain and suffering that the human creature in us experiences. Although that model does include it all being 'perfect' from one perspective, to use that idea of 'it's all perfect' to avoid fully feeling the human discomfort, as an anaesthetic to the very raw and vividly felt waves we feel as humans when something hurts or disappoints us, to 'run upstairs' proclaiming "it's all perfect, it was meant to be...tra la la..." is inefficient. A powerful challenge is to fully feel the human going ouch while AT THE SAME TIME fully experience the Witness in us that's not sucked into the drama but just watching, going "ah...interesting..." and scribbling an important note in it's file.
I'm here to FEEL with all my emotions and nerve endings and waves and tremors and bliss-outs and melt-downs. So when it gets shaky I can be the first to meet myself and go "stay with it brother, keep breathing"...